KISS Principle

The KISS principle from the drama "Triumph in the skies II" is very useful and meaningful to my life.

Keep

It

Simple

Stupid

Yes, can't deny that I'm always make things become complicated even just a little small thing.

Just like today, my colleague had asked me a question which has a simple answer. Although I have the correct answer in my mind, but yet I'd thought too much and made the answer complicated. She'd told me to use KISS principle and don't think too complicated and be confident to myself and to the answer.

From that moment, I just realized that I really think too much. No matter in studies, work, love, friendship and even my whole life. Because of this complicated mindset, I have ruined a lot of things. I've found out that one person being simple is not a bad thing. At least, he/she will be more happier than those who think too much like me. They enjoy their life more  than I do. A simple person will has less trouble and maybe look younger from outside and even deep heart inside.

From now on, I will try to learn to become a simple person. Simple yet gorgeous person. I will always bear in mind the KISS principle and apply in the rest of my life.

Life, Reality & Dream

Recently, my mind is keep spinning around for lots of thing. It's all about my future, life, career and myself. The feeling to achieve all my dreams is getting stronger and stronger day by day. I can't stop thinking about it. I was always thinking of change in my current life. I'm feeling bored with all these which myself doesn't really like it. This is not the life I want in the beginning. 

Life after graduated and working is miserable, ups and downs. There are kinds of people appeared around me for this two years. Can't deny that in this two years, I've learnt a lots of thing. Such as how to handle with those so called "fake people", how to speak and present yourself in front of various types of people, and how to achieve my dreams.

During the past two years, I've been travel to few countries like Cambodia, Thailand, Singapore and Taiwan. In the travel, I felt relieve and relax. I've gained experience on how to communicate with different races, languages and culture. From the moment I started my travelling journey, I can't stop myself from travel anymore. I just wanted to travel more and look more into the big big world. To see different things from what I've seen normally. I wanted to broaden my vision through travelling around the world during the rest of my lifetime. I don't want to become a frog under the well. 

Well, talk usually more easier than you action. There are lots of factors that will caused you from doing what you really want to do. Travel needs money. Money need to earn from working. Working means you need to face all the unnecessary wars. That's pathetic, right? I know the way I'm thinking is childish which everyone needs to face the reality. But I prefer and I wish to work on something that I'm really interested. 

In order to fulfilled my dream which is travel, I've applied one job which very suitable for me. But I knew that the percentage of getting the job is quite low or should say zero percent but who care? As long as I took the first step and applied. The result is what doesn't matter because I did it. I did the first step to achieve my dream. I feel my dream is getting closer to me. Hopefully the result will not be disappointing and God bless.

So friends out there, let's work hard together to achieve the dreams in your heart. Take the first step to make the dream closer to you but not further from you. Have a nice day!

要求是错吗？

人有要求，有错吗？

人有了要求，就会不快乐。。。

要求了，得到的就只有不想要的答案，是为什么呢？

人为什么要要求？

我这认真的很失败。。。

就是爱要求。。。要求这个，要求那个。。

我知道，要求别人，还不如要求自己。

所以，从今以后，我不会再要求任何东西了。

我要的东西，我会自己得到，不需要任何人的施舍。

辛辛苦苦找的，换来的是什么？

换来的就只有不稀罕。。。

那为什么还要犯贱自己呢？

你要的，以后你自己想办法得到，不想再一厢情愿的下去了。。。。

阴沉 。 心情 。 天气

今天，一早起身，就发现到外面的天气好像铺满着阴霾，昏昏沉沉地感觉。它就象征着我今天的心情。

这几天，心情就像海浪一样，有起有落，非常得不稳定。今早跟不用说，因为今天我觉得是这几天最低落得一天。或许，我太过敏感，有或许是我想得多。不过，这一切的所作所为，让我不能不去想。

或许，真的！人是没有完美的。这一刻对你好并代表下一刻还是一样的。也许，口说这样，也并不代表心想也是一样的。我真的真的需要调整自己的心情，感受，不要再为了这样的不一定而搞到自己翩体鳞伤，到最后，苦的只有自己。

宁欣啊，看开点吧，快乐的过你想要的生活，做你想要做的事吧！

开心放得下

算了吧

没关系

会过去的

记得三句话

开心放得下

这些话说得都没错，非常好。你硬硬要不算，有关系，过不去，那你又得到什么呢？换来的只有生气，伤心，烦恼，伤身。人要学会了这些，生活真的会比较开心。

我呢，还在学习着。我自认我还是初学者。因为我还会在意，会不开心，会烦恼，还是看不开。所以就必须找事情来掩盖，消除我的不满。可是，真的能行吗？真的看了笑话篇，跟朋友倾诉了，会开心回吗？会忘了烦恼吗？我本人觉得不管用在我的身上。所谓：心病还需心药医，解铃还需系铃人。

希望，我能很快的学起来，永远做个没烦恼，快乐的人。

慈济。志工

09.06.2013 - 慈济志工开始的一天

今天的静思语就是“施比受更有福“。

人往往就是喜欢等待别人的付出，自己一一地接受，也不愿为他人付出，人就是那么的自私。确实，你接受别人的帮助，会觉得很快乐，因为他们不需要付出任何东西就可以得到结果。如果你是有能力的，为什么还要等待别人的帮助呢？

受是开心，不过，施会更加的有意义。

每一天，有多少的人饿着肚子，拾荒赚取那区区的几块钱养活一家人？有多少人因为没钱，营养不良而导致死亡？又有多少名小孩被父母抛弃？

我们，这一群有能力养活，有多余的消遣活动，整天只吃喝玩乐的人，为什么还要等待别人的帮助而不是主动地去帮助真的有需要的人呢？或许，我们没有能力从金钱上帮助，不过，我们还有力气去用行动来帮助他人。可能，去拜访老人院孤儿院有或者是去帮忙做意工。这些其实都需要花你很多的时间。只要你有那颗心，一个月一次也很足够了。

当你真的帮到有需要的人时，看见他们对着你微笑，对你说感恩的时候，你的心，是温暖的，是感动的。这样的人生，才是有意义的。

脾气

脾气，是人都会有的。可是，我的脾气就比别人坏多几倍。

从以前到现在，一直都和自己说要改要改，一定要改掉你那暴躁的脾气，不能一直发脾气，生气。是的。。和自己说了之后，有收敛一点。但是，过一会儿，脾气又来了。

小时候的我，更加的没话好说。家里的每一个人都不敢惹我生气。一生气了，就谁也不理，跟爸爸告状。从小的我，就是那么的霸道，任性，野蛮。曾经生气过妈妈，不跟她说话。当时的我，就觉得为什么她不挺我，不爱我了吗？现在回想起，真觉得我很不应该，我真的是个不孝女。整天只会发小姐脾气，只会要求别人顺着我的意，可是就不会替别人想想。为什么我就那么的无理呢？现在后悔还有什么用呢？

虽然如此，不过我还学不会一句话 - 经一事，长一智。到现在，我还是一样的无理取闹，目中无人。或许，比起以前，确实的改了少许，不过，还是有着让人受不了的脾气。对于家人，爱情和友情都一样。家人也许没那么严重了，可是对于情人，也是一样。只要他说些我不喜欢听的话，我就会生气，不爽。其实，我也不想那么容易发脾气的。发了脾气，受苦的是自己，心跳加速，难以呼吸。我也很想控制我的情绪，每天告诉自己不要那么容易生气，要不然，所有的人都会离我而去，剩下我一个人孤苦伶仃。

有位好友就教我看多点静思语，学多点人生道理。或许，是有用的。不过，我想这一切还是需要靠我自己去调养情绪，看开一点，人生或许会更快乐！

脾气大小姐啊。。。请您速速离开我吧！我不想跟您纠缠不清了。

旅行 @ 梦想

旅行是个生活中扮演着非常重要的一部分。人生没有了旅行，就很像缺少了一些东西。 最近在网上看到一句话，本人觉得应用在我身上实在是贴切 - 我一上班就患了想旅行的病。没错！我就是这样。我一上班，满脑子就是想着何时再去旅行。我的梦想就是想一个人，没有约束，自由自在，任我飞翔的旅行！

有时，我真的很想有股勇气，冲动，自己领着背包，护照，走去飞机场即兴的买一张飞机票，然后就展开我的一个人的旅行！ 可是，往往会有很多的因素而导致这个梦想一而再，再而三的延迟。金钱，时间，家庭。人。。就是有太多的承担。


或许，人需要自私一次。抛开所有的承担，任性，疯狂，潇洒一次！人生有时不能太理智，要不然，就会错过很多人与事物。年轻就是本钱。。不然年纪大了，想要疯狂也有心无力。

何年何月何日，我才能过踏上我的梦之旅呢？

我真得很想很想疯狂一次！

Review Resolution 2012

     Let's see what  I've done for my resolution 2012:

1. Learn up as much as things in my career. Don't keep wait for the senior to ask me to do. (In progress)
2. Decrease my weight to the limit I've set since this morning I weighed, omg, I'm over limit! (Failed)
3. No shopping anymore in the first half year of 2012. (because I spent a lots in buying unnecessary things.:( ) ( Done)
4. Must restart my exercise again! Twice a week if didn't go for outstation. (Half Done, Half Failed)
5. Must do savings. (Failed)
6. Must learn to do some investment.  (Done)
7. Must learn to love and care everyone in my life.   (In Progress)
8. If found my true love, must appreciate him. Not to repeat my mistakes again.    (In progress)
9. Learn to control my emotions, my tempered. Do not easily get angry.     (In progress)
10. Must do some charity works and keep update with my sponsored kid   (Failed)

So for my resolution 2013, apart from my pending resolution last year, I think it should add in some new resolution for me to achieve:

1. To set a target for my monthly saving. 
2. Travel and gain experience from the trip.
3. Have a healthy life (fruits, exercises & sleep early)

I think it is enough for me to achieve for this year 2013. Hopefully I can do it one by one.

Happy New Year Guys!

  

Eternity Love?

I really wonder in this world, is there any eternity love exist? I'm very doubt about it although I really wish it does.
Sometimes reality is just very cruel until that we forced to accept it. No matter you like it or not.
Does an answer for the question you've popped out to us really a matter to you?
I don't think so because the answer we give is not important anymore.
This incident just make me feel very disappointed on you as I'm very respect you all the while. But all these just spoil by you because of this incident.
I wonder how can you change yourself in just a short period?
I don't know what is happening but I just can't imagine that this word will spoke by you.
All of us just can't accept what you've done to us. We knew that maybe you need it and we also knew we can't give you much, but at least before this, we living in a happy life.
I don't know how it will change after tomorrow. I hope it will remaining the same and you will listen to us. Please don't be childish anymore since you are not young anymore. Be mature and think for us.

An emotional me..................and I really need someone to talk with but I can't.