最熟悉的陌生人

爱情就像舞会

教会你最初舞步的

未必能陪你走到散场

爱情就像听音乐

遇到好听的

就会陶醉其中

单曲重播

一秒都不想停下来

而如今只能随机播放

等待下一首能让我心动的旋律

等待

记得我曾对他说

等你是幸福的事

可是有时候

无结局的等待让人心碎

这世界上最累的事

莫过于眼睁睁看自己的心碎了

还得自己动手把它粘回原形

我不等了

因为我学会了放手

放手。。你很伤心地对我说

我不爱你了

可是。。。

你不知道

让你飞翔

是我爱你的方式

我的眼泪

落在你看不到的角落

于是

我们的距离

就像一起看日落的影子

拉长了。。。。

曾经尝试逃出你设下的阴影

走了很久才发现

原来我还走不出这黑暗的迷宫

偶尔触碰到伤口

偶尔也会小声哭泣

我选择逃避

用尽美丽的童话来掩盖丑恶的谎言

我催眠自己

因为我受不起伤害

我活在过去

因为现实生活中

你已离我而去

你送我的礼物

我都舍不得扔

你给我的回忆

我都藏在心里

偶尔拿出来重温

很无聊的

你的照片存了又删除

删了又存回去

很自私的

每一天都要你在我的脑海里跑一趟

也很愚蠢的

每一天都在你看不到的角落关心你

对你，其实我还在意

我们可以重来吗？

可以回到过去吗？

可是我很清楚

我们的生命线再不会遇到交叉点了

两条不碰面的平行线

只能隔着远方看你

终究

我们成了彼此的路人甲

分手后不可做朋友

因为彼此伤害过

不可以做敌人

因为彼此深爱过

所以我们就成为了最熟悉的陌生人

想念你的我

希望你是幸福的

p/s: Adapted from a video in facebook!

爱的四个阶段

有位爱情方面的心理学家曾写道：

一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情

必须经历4个阶段

‘共存（Codependent)，反依赖(Counterindependent)，独立(Independent)，

共生(Interdependent)’

阶段之间转换的时间因人而异

第一个阶段：共存

这是热恋时期

情人希望无论何时何地都能粘在一起

第二个阶段：反依赖

等到情感渐渐稳定后

至少会有一方想要更多时间来做自己想做的事

这时，另一方会感到被冷落，开始莫名的伤感和孤单

第三个阶段：独立

这是第二个阶段的延续

要求更多独立自主的时间

也是双方进一步适应和磨合的过程

第四个阶段：共生

这时新的相处之道已经形成

你的他/她已经成为你最亲爱的人

你们在一起相互扶持

一起开创属于你们的人生

你们在一起不会相互牵绊

而会相互鼓励，相互成长

但是，大多数的人都过不了第二与第三阶段

而选择分手的方式

这时非常可惜的

很多事情只要好好的沟通就会没事

不要赌气，不要耍性子

要相互信任，相互体谅

这样第二与第三阶段的时间就会缩短

和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的

所以无论如何都不要轻言放弃

两人于茫茫人海中相聚是因为有缘

彼此相知相恋是因为有心

真得好好珍惜这福分

莫轻谈分手

我们会逐渐变成我们所爱的人

你和他本来没有共同之处

性格也南辕北徹

可是一旦彼此爱上了

日久天长

你会惊讶的发现

他的眼睛有点像你的眼睛

他的微笑又有点像你的微笑

你们的步法有点相似

说话的语气也越来越像

原来我们会变成我们所爱的人

你原本喜欢脚踏实地的人

可是他很轻佻

但，你们爱上了

他竟会不知不觉地学着变老实

这个适应你的渐渐的改变

甚至连他自己都不曾有所察觉

这种改变，绝不是刻意的

两个人爱的越久，气质也愈相近

你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的类型

然而有一天你会惊讶的发现

他已变成你喜欢的类型

你不必再到处寻觅

他就是你要找的人

Life for past few weeks!

Few weeks didn't update my blog already. So I decided to update it today to prove that it's still alive.

For the past few weeks, there were many things happened on my friends surrounded me and myself. Because of these, my mood doesn't seems good.

One of my friends told me that she got a guy chasing her but she refused to accept him. She has her reasons to reject the guy but my advise to her is think properly before make any decision that will affect her future.

Besides, I was still worrying about my internship. Although I got the company, but I still don't know where should I stay for the 8 weeks and how am I going to work? I know I should call the supervisor but I don't know what should I ask him. Dad was asking me to make a call as soon as possible and I think I have to call them by next week.

Another friends of mine had problem with her boyfriend. But I think the problem has solved and they will be happily till forever. What I happy for is she told me that she finally found out that she love her current boyfriend more than her dream guy.

Arguement always will end up with sadness,anger and etc. I don't know why people want to argue for stupid little thing. After one arguement, they need to apologise to each other. So what is the point? For improve relationship by a small arguement? Or they were boring with their life and wanted to make some rhythm of life?

What I hate the most is I got a selfish housemate+coursemate!!!! I don't know why got such people in the world. Everything is started by him but now he said that we are liar! I very angry when he said that because he is the one who said lies to us. What also want to be first, so "KIASU". WHat people have, he also wants. ALways just like to follow people silently, observe what people done. I still need to face him for 1 year. I don't know we still will be friend in future. But if he still behave like this, my answer will be definitely NO!

Final is coming very soon. But I still haven't make any preparation yet. My result will gone this semester? I hope NO! I know hope must be achieve by action. So let's start my revision next monday? LOlz....

CNY?

I really do not have any CNY's feel this year. Everyday also tired due to sickness, sweat because of weather it's hot.
Because of these, I do no have mood to go out. Just sit in front of my pc and watching PPS.
Recently, I'm watching a korean drama. It's very nice. This drama is my mum recommand to me one. She kept said very nice. So I try to open and watch it. After watched, I'm addicted! 1 day watched 20 episodes. LOL...
Today is 3rd day of CNY. My half CNY is passed just by doing nothing at all.
There have 3 more tests waiting for me after this holiday. I haven't start revise yet. I'm too lazy to start it!!!!

I'm HOME!
Everyone is headed back to their hometown for celebrate the coming soon CNY and so do I. But I can't really feel the CNY atmosphere. Why? All busy with their studies, work, money and etc?
For me, it was a bad day. I was falling sick. Stupid idiot virus, why you approach to me? It's too bad!
As usual, I have to clean up the house, wash all the curtains, mop the floor, sweep the dust and so on. But, I will wait for my sister and brothers to come back and work out with me.
In this coming CNY, there is someone missing and that is my grandpa. He died at 3rd day of CNY last year. He cannot join our CNY celebrating anymore. He had leave us for 1 year. I miss him very much.
After CNY, my nightmare will start! It is 8th week for the semester and it means already half semester was gone. Half semester without doing something. Everyday sleep at lecture, chit-chat with friends, or dreaming as well. I don't know what I had learn in this past half semester. So after CNY, I should start to revise??? Kidding! ^^ But somehow, I also need to start a little bit by little bit because all the tests are waiting for me. I hate this kind of life.
I think I should stop crapping here and start to help my mum to clean the house.
Take care my friends and HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR to all of my readers and HAPPY VALENTINE too to all the lovely couples.

Reunion Dinner Year 2010

Year 2010 Reunion Dinner!!! Wish everyone have a bless tiger's year! All the best to you guys. Love you all very much!

FRIENDSHIP FOREVER

&

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR

The weather is too hot and I have no mood to do everything except sleep in aircond's room!!!
Say NO to Medicinal!!!!=P

My 4th week

I do not have mood to study recently.
Everyday just think of play, shoppimg, sleep and etc that make me enjoy my life.
Next Wednesday I'll have a test but I'm still not really want to revise it.
Am I too enjoy my life? Or I'm starting to be lazy? I'm wondering~~

For the week, I still the same. After Tuesday, my life is totally enjoyable. Class on Wednesday until 1pm, Thursday until 10am and Friday until 9am. That's a great time table for me since past 3 semesters.

Wednesday night, my formal group of besties coursemates had our dinner at Strawberry Cafe at New town. This been ages since last gathering we had. I love this kind of gathering with them because of them, I smile, I laugh, I care and I love. They really bring alots of laughters to me.♥

While my Thursday, I also spent the time with them at MidValley. We went to watch Legion and also Haunted University. This outing was enjoyable because we watched two movies on that day continuously. I never try this before and that day, I'd broke my record! ♥

And my Friday and Saturday noon, I played The Sims 3♥ for few hours. I was addicted to it!!! I can't stop playing that unless there is something to stop me!

That's all for my 4th week of Semester 2 09/10.

xoxo...♥

I'm Sorry!

I knew that I'd hurt you always.
I'm sorry, my sweetheart.
I'm not mean to hurt you actually. I just don't know how to confess to you.
But I know it's too late for me to say anything.
What I can say is I'm so sorry and hope you will be happy forever without getting hurt by me anymore.
I'm Sorry!



*I don't know whether you will read my blog or not. But I'm just not dare to talk face to face to you. I don't know how to face you. I just know I'm very bad. I have no the rights to hurt you.

Happy New Year 2010

The brand new year is come!
Year 2009 was a tough year for me.
Pressure on studies, both of my grandfathers was passed away, moody, sentimental and etc.
But luckily, all these have gone and a brand new year is come.
I hope my year 2010 is great and enjoyable.
I hope my parents and family always healthy and safe.
I hope my studies is smooth until I graduate.
I hope my friends are happy always and cheer up.
I hope everything fine for those who surrounding me.
Happy Year 2010 to everyone!
Hope everyone has an advance year!