Love that I want....

I wish.....

To have a peacefully life with my love one beside the beach.

Sit along the beach from day to night.

Watch the sunrise and sunset...

Lye on the beach and look onto the sky...

See the moon and the stars....

Hold the hand until the end of our life...

That's the love I want in my life.

遇见

‘要在对的时间遇见对的人，不要差一点错过了对的人。‘

我非常的认同和赞同这句话。。。
有些人，在错的时间遇见对的人
有些人，在对的时间遇见错的人
有些人，在错的时间遇见错的人
当然，也有些人，在对的时间遇见对的人。

我呢，希望我不会再错过那个在对的时间遇到对的人了！
我一定会好好地珍惜那个对的人。。。
因为，我不要也不想辜负和伤害那个对的人。♥

我也希望我身边的朋友能够在对的时间，遇见他们对的人，永远幸福快乐！

xoxo

Updates!

Today was the first time I managed to online since 8.30a.m. at the office till office hour end. Nothing to do but just facebook-ing and check out people's pictures and blogs. I was so boring till the max.

But finally I found a thing to do and that is to update my so-dead-blog. It's been ages since last update. Okay...let's start to update my last week's happenings.

Some of my besties said to me that they were not coming back to PJ last week. But but but, I could met them in my house after back from work. Why? This is because my bf and them already planned to give me a surprise-early-birthday-celebration. I was so touched yet happy. This was the first year I had my birthday celebration with bunch of besties and bf together in my uni's life. I love them to the max!

But, unfortunately, they failed to give me the surprise they planned to at first. Nevermind, who cares? As long as all of you were here with me. *happy happy*

Then the night we went to One Utama for dinner and Tropicana for movie. The day was fulled with joys and laughters.

The next day my bf and I went to the Curve for our next celebration. Although in the meantime we argued but it's okay after we had our nice yummy dinner.*yum yum*. I really thanks my bf for what he done for me and sorry for my capricious, my bad attitude. I love you much!

And yesterday, my bf and I applied for leave to register our next semester course and of course, dating for the last day of the week.

I am so so happy to have bunch of besties around me and my bf beside me all the time when I need them no matter when I was on the up or the down of my life. Beside my family, all of you are the most important person in my life forever. Thanks my beloved friends and bf! Muacksssssssssssss

I got to go because it's almost reach my time to go back home. Bye!=P

最熟悉的陌生人

爱情就像舞会

教会你最初舞步的

未必能陪你走到散场

爱情就像听音乐

遇到好听的

就会陶醉其中

单曲重播

一秒都不想停下来

而如今只能随机播放

等待下一首能让我心动的旋律

等待

记得我曾对他说

等你是幸福的事

可是有时候

无结局的等待让人心碎

这世界上最累的事

莫过于眼睁睁看自己的心碎了

还得自己动手把它粘回原形

我不等了

因为我学会了放手

放手。。你很伤心地对我说

我不爱你了

可是。。。

你不知道

让你飞翔

是我爱你的方式

我的眼泪

落在你看不到的角落

于是

我们的距离

就像一起看日落的影子

拉长了。。。。

曾经尝试逃出你设下的阴影

走了很久才发现

原来我还走不出这黑暗的迷宫

偶尔触碰到伤口

偶尔也会小声哭泣

我选择逃避

用尽美丽的童话来掩盖丑恶的谎言

我催眠自己

因为我受不起伤害

我活在过去

因为现实生活中

你已离我而去

你送我的礼物

我都舍不得扔

你给我的回忆

我都藏在心里

偶尔拿出来重温

很无聊的

你的照片存了又删除

删了又存回去

很自私的

每一天都要你在我的脑海里跑一趟

也很愚蠢的

每一天都在你看不到的角落关心你

对你，其实我还在意

我们可以重来吗？

可以回到过去吗？

可是我很清楚

我们的生命线再不会遇到交叉点了

两条不碰面的平行线

只能隔着远方看你

终究

我们成了彼此的路人甲

分手后不可做朋友

因为彼此伤害过

不可以做敌人

因为彼此深爱过

所以我们就成为了最熟悉的陌生人

想念你的我

希望你是幸福的

p/s: Adapted from a video in facebook!

爱的四个阶段

有位爱情方面的心理学家曾写道：

一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情

必须经历4个阶段

‘共存（Codependent)，反依赖(Counterindependent)，独立(Independent)，

共生(Interdependent)’

阶段之间转换的时间因人而异

第一个阶段：共存

这是热恋时期

情人希望无论何时何地都能粘在一起

第二个阶段：反依赖

等到情感渐渐稳定后

至少会有一方想要更多时间来做自己想做的事

这时，另一方会感到被冷落，开始莫名的伤感和孤单

第三个阶段：独立

这是第二个阶段的延续

要求更多独立自主的时间

也是双方进一步适应和磨合的过程

第四个阶段：共生

这时新的相处之道已经形成

你的他/她已经成为你最亲爱的人

你们在一起相互扶持

一起开创属于你们的人生

你们在一起不会相互牵绊

而会相互鼓励，相互成长

但是，大多数的人都过不了第二与第三阶段

而选择分手的方式

这时非常可惜的

很多事情只要好好的沟通就会没事

不要赌气，不要耍性子

要相互信任，相互体谅

这样第二与第三阶段的时间就会缩短

和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的

所以无论如何都不要轻言放弃

两人于茫茫人海中相聚是因为有缘

彼此相知相恋是因为有心

真得好好珍惜这福分

莫轻谈分手

我们会逐渐变成我们所爱的人

你和他本来没有共同之处

性格也南辕北徹

可是一旦彼此爱上了

日久天长

你会惊讶的发现

他的眼睛有点像你的眼睛

他的微笑又有点像你的微笑

你们的步法有点相似

说话的语气也越来越像

原来我们会变成我们所爱的人

你原本喜欢脚踏实地的人

可是他很轻佻

但，你们爱上了

他竟会不知不觉地学着变老实

这个适应你的渐渐的改变

甚至连他自己都不曾有所察觉

这种改变，绝不是刻意的

两个人爱的越久，气质也愈相近

你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的类型

然而有一天你会惊讶的发现

他已变成你喜欢的类型

你不必再到处寻觅

他就是你要找的人

Life for past few weeks!

Few weeks didn't update my blog already. So I decided to update it today to prove that it's still alive.

For the past few weeks, there were many things happened on my friends surrounded me and myself. Because of these, my mood doesn't seems good.

One of my friends told me that she got a guy chasing her but she refused to accept him. She has her reasons to reject the guy but my advise to her is think properly before make any decision that will affect her future.

Besides, I was still worrying about my internship. Although I got the company, but I still don't know where should I stay for the 8 weeks and how am I going to work? I know I should call the supervisor but I don't know what should I ask him. Dad was asking me to make a call as soon as possible and I think I have to call them by next week.

Another friends of mine had problem with her boyfriend. But I think the problem has solved and they will be happily till forever. What I happy for is she told me that she finally found out that she love her current boyfriend more than her dream guy.

Arguement always will end up with sadness,anger and etc. I don't know why people want to argue for stupid little thing. After one arguement, they need to apologise to each other. So what is the point? For improve relationship by a small arguement? Or they were boring with their life and wanted to make some rhythm of life?

What I hate the most is I got a selfish housemate+coursemate!!!! I don't know why got such people in the world. Everything is started by him but now he said that we are liar! I very angry when he said that because he is the one who said lies to us. What also want to be first, so "KIASU". WHat people have, he also wants. ALways just like to follow people silently, observe what people done. I still need to face him for 1 year. I don't know we still will be friend in future. But if he still behave like this, my answer will be definitely NO!

Final is coming very soon. But I still haven't make any preparation yet. My result will gone this semester? I hope NO! I know hope must be achieve by action. So let's start my revision next monday? LOlz....

爱情温度计与保鲜期

有一位朋友问我，到底是不是每对情侣都有爱情温度计与保鲜期。
他说，当一对刚开始的恋人，他们一定处于温度计的巅峰-热恋期。至于保鲜期当然说是永远咯。
但当这段爱情有一点的时期了，那么它的温度会还是保持与热恋期的吗？？？他这样的问我。
我说啊。。。或许刚热恋期的时候，甜言蜜语数不尽。什么天长地久的，什么海枯石烂的，说的有多么的动听。但是，有多少人真地会如此呢？？我不知道。
热恋期是有多长呢？？因人而异吧。有的是3个月，有的是1年 ，有的是10年，也有的真的是永远。 不过，有多少的是这样呢？？
我有个朋友说啊。。。他的男朋友再追她的时候，天天在聊天室里聊到凌晨3点多都不会累。可是呢。。。在一起差不多一年了，聊聊到1，2点他就说累了。累，她相信他。因为他早起床。不过。。。。她也都失望了。是因为他变了吗？？？还是他们已经不再热恋期了呢？？或许吧。。。
这我脑海里出现了一首歌。。。<是你变了吗>
人啊。。。当然对新的东西都特别的好奇，新鲜的吧。所以说不在热恋期也对吧。
我的朋友还告诉我说她依然很爱他。。。不过，她对他有点失望而已。
她对他们的感情也感觉到了危机。可是，她说她不会放弃直到那男的放弃了。
也许那女的的确对这段感情很认真吧。
我希望她的男朋友可以了解她的苦心，她对他的心与认真。
祝福他们！！！！

Love someone that is impossbile for you is it suffer?

Love someone that he/she already has another partner is it that suffer?
Love him/her, but can't let them know.
Keep inside the heart.
Cry alone, sad alone. Is this worth it to do that?
One of my friend is facing this problem now.
She likes someone she can't likes.
The guy has GF already.
He is not that good actually. He treat everyone also the same.
He believes that there is no any gap between guys and gals.
So he treat you like this just because he made you as friend!!!!! He cares you just because you are one of his friend.
He already has GF!!!!! You should wake up from your fairy tale's dream.
He is not worth for you, I guessed so.
Your emotions now have control by him.
Today you told me that you very sad because he didn't reply your message and tomorrow you said you were very happy because he replied you.
I gonna faint with all of these rubbish.
You are such a fool. You fooled by yourself and by him. You better WAKE UP WAKE UP!!!
Many people already knew that he got GF and many people also told you about this. But you still wanna wait some miracle to happen.
Yes, maybe someday the miracle would happen but when?
When the time he and his GF break??
Don't wait for his letter or sms.
Don't sad for him anymore.
You still young and still got many choices out there waiting for you.

最后一次

在我最后一次，
闭上眼睛之前，
我想對你說我愛你
在你怀里，
舍不得放弃，
心里有千万语还没说给你听
我使劲全力，
不想闭上眼睛，
这次告别就不能再相遇
不能再陪你，
当不要忘记，
你曾经答应我你会好好活下去...

想走了~
去了好远的地方，
不能再陪你看日出
等不到天亮
所有回忆抹去却并不容易，
生死由天决定不要太伤心。

在我最后一次，
闭上眼睛之前，
我想對你說我愛你
在你怀里，
舍不得放弃，
心里有千万语还没说给你听
我使劲全力，
不想闭上眼睛，
这次告别就不能再相遇
不能再陪你，
当不要忘记，
你曾经答应我你会好好活下去

在我最后一次,
闭上眼睛之前，
我想對你說我愛你
在你怀里，
舍不得放弃，
心里有千万语还没说给你听
我使劲全力，
不想闭上眼睛，
这次告别就不能再相遇
不能再陪你，
当不要忘记，
你曾经答应我你会好好活下去
(我永远爱你)........

Love & Friendship

What would you do if every time you fell in love with someone you had to say good-bye?
What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?
What would you do if for every moment you were truly happy there would be 10 moments of sadness?
What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt?
What would you do if you loved someone more than anything else and you could never have them?
Some people live and some people die.
But I want to tell you I love you and you are a true friend...
That I will always be here for you when and if you need me...
If I died tomorrow, you would be in my heart forever.
Would I be in yours?

The Love Story Between a Pig and a Dog.

Did you ever heard about dog & pig's love story? I'm sure you didn't hear about it. And so let me tell you all this story.

On 30/06/2008, 2 girls came from different states were met in 3rd Residential College Room A209. They brought along their cute little pets too. And start from that day, the 2 owners and the 2 pets were became a very good roommate. And recently, the pets are getting married because they are falling in love for each other. And I'm sure that they will stay forever together and same to the 2 owners too.

Here are the process that the Patrick Doggie flirting with the Black Piggie.

At first, the Blackie don't want to bother Patrick. She "jual mahal betul".

Then, she can't stand with Patrick's handsome-ness, so she talks to him.

They progress super fast. Few minutes chatting, the Blackie let the Patrick to kiss her.

They become a very good partner.

Since Patrick is small in size, so Blackie let Patrick sat on her body.

They like to hug together.

And finally, they get married with the attendance of the 2 owners, Ning Shing & Yen Shan. Lolz.


Congrats Mr. Patrick and Mrs. Patrick, stay happily & forever!

I had a great chatting with 1 of my old best friends just now.
We had chatted alot.
I missed the times we used to be together.
Then we chatted about our love's life.
I was so happy that she get a boyfriend.
It was a great news for her and for me.
I wish her all the best and stay forever with her loves one.
And we suddenly talked about HIM.
I told her all the grandpa & grandmom's stories.
And this made me think of him again.
I sent his picture and shown her.
I was thought that I had already forget about him, but the result was NOT.
He is still there. He is still in my mind after so many years.
How could this happened?
I don't know.
Sometimes I don't want him to appear in my mind anymore but sometimes I do.
Am I crazy? Lolx....
Anyway...
Gal, congrates that you found your Mr. Right! Stay happily forever!

.::+*喜欢和爱区别*+::.

当你站在你爱的人面前,你的心跳会加速;
当你与你爱的人四目交投,你会害羞;

但当你站在你喜欢的人面前,你只感到开心;

但当你与你喜欢的人四目交投,你只会微笑.

当你与你爱的人对话,你觉得难以启齿;

当你爱的人哭,你会陪她一起哭;
但当你和你喜欢的人对话,你可以畅所欲言;

但当你喜欢的人哭,你会技巧的安慰她.

当你不想再爱一个人,你要闭上眼睛并忍着泪水;

当你不想再喜欢一个人,你只要掩住双耳!

喜欢，是一种心情

爱， 是一种感情

喜欢，是一种直觉

爱， 是一种感觉

喜欢，可以停止

爱， 没有休止

喜欢一个人，特别自然

爱一个人， 特别坦然

喜欢一个人，有时候盼和他在一起

爱一个人， 有时候怕和他在一起

喜欢一个人，不停的和他争执

爱一个人， 不停的为他付出

喜欢一个人，希望他可以随时找到自己

爱一个人， 希望可以随时找到他

喜欢一个人，总是为他而笑

爱一个人， 总是为他而哭

喜欢，是执着
爱， 是值得

喜欢就是喜欢，很简单

爱就是爱， 很复杂

喜欢你，却不一定爱你

爱你， 就一定很喜欢你

其实，喜欢和爱仅一步之遥

但，想要迈这一步

就看你

是喜欢迈这一步

Love Is Hard to Have?

Love is it hard to get?

One of my friend has faced this problem nowadays.
He loves a girl for over 4 years, I guessed.
But he didn't has the courage to confess to the girl.
4 years is not a short period though, but he still loves her.
I don't know what to say about him. Stupid? Chicken-hearted? Or faithful...?

I taught him how to confess to the girl but he kept telling me that he don't know how to do.
He told me that he has ready but he couldn't take any action right now.
He saved a confess message in his phone inbox but he didn't send it. He even typed the confess message in Chinese (he don't know Chinese one).
I just keep telling him that if he don't want to take any action right now, later he will going to regret for not doing so.
But I guess he still got abit worried if that girl rejects him. He said he can't accept the reality if she rejects him. Lolz... I said you think too much.

So, love is it hard to have? (I am wondering.)
But I have an idea for you guys out there.
Once if you like/love a person, confess or do something. Don't let you feel regret of this after that. Love is hard to find, I know. And confess is the hardest thing for us, girls to do so.
Well, what I want to say is don't feel regret in your life once. Never ever try to feel regret! DO what can you do and maybe you'll get what a result you want to.

Do.You.Love.Someone.Who.Will.Not.Be.With.You.Forever?

Do you ever had an experience before that you love someone that you know you'll not be hers/his forever?
Isn't it a very pity thing?

Since the day you love her/him, you know it.
You know you both won't be together.
But what make you love her/him so much, so deep? (Do love countable? I have no idea.)
You know you will not be with her/him but you still love her/him?
This is a stupid action and if you hurt, nobody will pity for you.
Yourself want to hurt yourself.
No matter how hard you try, you confess, she/he will also not appreciate your love.
Your obstinate-ness will just let her/him hate you.
Is this what you want to see?

Do you need to become like this because of a person who don't really worth you to love?
You are no need to do so.
You are no need to sacrifice for those who don't appreciate you.

One day, I know there will be someone knows how to appeciate your love for her/him.
The someone will not let you get hurt and will not hate you.
The someone loves you from her/his truly deep heart.
The someone will loves you more than you love her/him.
The someone will place you as FIRST in her/his heart.

So, why do you still love the one who don't appreciate you?
Just forget her/him and wait for the someone, Mrs/Mr. Right come and loves you, cares you!
Once you found your Mrs/Mr. Right , you will be very grateful to the one who don't appreciate you.

Love is patient, love is kind

It does not envy

Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude

It is not self-seeking, nor easily angered

It keeps no record of wrongdoing

It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth

It always protects, trusts, hopes, and preserves

There is nothing love cannot face

There is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance

In a word, there are three things that last forever:Faith, hope, and love

But the greatest of them all is love

100 times Sorries...

http://www.game2p.com/story/love2.htm

You should click here and read. For those who can't read chinese, let me tell you abit about this article.

This is a story about a couple. The guy love the gal so much. He is willing to say sorry to his girlfriend(he didn't say sorry to anyone before) rather than let her know about his sickness. He kept his sickness as a secret until the day he died. Everytime he made her angry, he will just say sorry and didn't explain the reasons. Nevertheless, he will captured his photo and wrote caption behind the photo once he made his girlfriend angry as a memory. One day, his girlfriend was very angry and dumped him because she thought he is not changing his weakness. (the gal very cruel right? She don't know the real reason, that's why?)

Until the 100th photos, he died. The 10oth sorry's reason was because he left her alone after this and do not give her happiness. I love you.

It's quite touching but I didn't cry. But I was wondering is the world still have this type of boyfriend? A boyfriend who rather cheat you for a good reason but also don't want you to feel sad for him. I was wondering.And I personally thoughts that this story taught us how to appreciate those things we have now and it's too late if we lost them.

" 如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?

Tadashii ouji no tsukurikata (How to create the ideal prince)

The relationship's chart









The girls' meeting room



The 5 hardest pairs

The hottest group





They started their prince project.

The coolest and handsome guy!:P
5 coolest pairs

Finally I finished Tadashii ouji no tsukurikata (How to create the ideal prince) in one day. This Japanese drama is really nice to watch. It is all about friendship, love, trustworthy, confidence and etc. It's a cool drama. Young and active. The girls are trying to change the guys from all aspects like appearance and attitude. And yes, at the beginning, they face all the problems but at the end, they success to change the guys to become a PRINCE.

I am jobless now and at first I thought I will be very enjoy my long holiday without work! But I think I'm wrong because just a few days, I felt boring and doing nothing! Everyday my schedule was just sleep, wake up, eat, online, tv and sleep back again. Really superb boring! All my friends are working and just I'm free like a bird!

And these few days, I heart a song sang by Yang Pei An. Really nice and touch my heart! The lyrics and the melody really make me wanna cry! I was just kept repeating this song again and again.

Nothing to write anymore!! Boring Life!!!

分手前的雨天 by 张敬轩

我在雷雨下的屋檐
午后一点你来电
我知道这一天它终于会出现 像一道闪电
站在篮球场的冰点 迎接爱情的期限
你小小声对我说那么就这样了
但是满天的乌云要来了

分手前的雨天 我记得脸上的雨点
时间突然停了天空也是黑的
我都看不见了 分手前的雨天
像一张凝固的相片
没有方向的我孤单站在马路边
那个分手的雨天 我忘了脸上的雨点

世界再说什么还会给我什么
我都听不见 分手的雨天
我听见心中的雷电
午后那一场雨也许扭转了一切

I Miss You !!!
I really do ...
But you will not know it forever !!!